jharmon255, I am praying for your family and you. May Father God always shine his light upon your path. May he bless you with the wisdom and resources you need to make your decision. May our Lord Jesus Christ manifest Himself in your life and lead you closer to God, so you may lean on His supernatural understanding only. May the Holy Spirit guide you in doing Gods will in the situation. I pray for these blessings for your family and for you in the name of our Father in Heaven, His Son Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. AMEN!!!