Carolnb, I am praying for you
You might want to talk to a naturopathic doctor (ND), an herbalist, a TCM (traditional chinese medicine doctor), or an Ayurvedic doctor. If you have health problems that you feel are diminishing your life, I would not just accept it. These people work in natural health and are very good at finding problems that normal doctors miss. I would call one of them, if I were you. You do not just have to "accept" that you have to be sick, and I would take control of my life back. Best of luck to you.
Carolnb, I am continuing praying for you