Equipped by Grace

The only stories we can tell truthfully are our own. Our stories look different to others than they do to us. Perspectives, experiences, and hopes shape the way we tell our own story. One of the most important things we can do for others is to listen to their stories and to let our truths live next to one another.

The characters in the story of the prodigal are not fully aware of each other’s truths. Even as readers of the story, we are not fully aware of each character’s truth. The younger son must have his reasons for asking for his inheritance before his father’s death. Then, when things don’t work out, he tells himself a story about what will happen when he returns to his father’s house.

We do not have as much insight into the story the father tells himself. He chooses to grant his younger son’s request. We do not know how easy or difficult that was to do. Reading into the father’s joy at the younger son’s return, we can guess at the grief or loss he experienced in his child’s absence.

The elder brother tells some of his own story. He has been diligent in his work and in his dedication to his father. He had never asked for anything, but he is resentful of what is lavished on his brother. Without putting too many words in his mouth, we can safely assume that anyone who has worked diligently and consistently without recognition can understand the elder brother’s resentment.

All these stories contain truth, the truth that each man told himself. Every person has a truth, rooted in their perceptions, experiences, and hopes. It is only when, equipped by grace, we listen to one another that our truths can be reconciled in love and become a new story of hope and restoration.