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October 11, 2026

Holding Both Beautiful and Brutal

Victoria Loorz   |   Read Philippians 4:8-9

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Lectionary Week
October 5–11, 2026
Scripture Overview

As much as we might like to focus on the easy parts of ancient stories, the golden calf and the parable of the wedding guests this week are particularly difficult, full of betrayal, retribution, and violence. Avoiding those parts can cause us to lose sight of the wisdom at the core. The psalm positions the story of the golden calf alongside God’s everlasting love, but still acknowledges the peoples’ failure and God’s wrath that is tempered only through Moses’ intervention. This complicated collection of stories is punctuated by Paul’s letter to the Philippians, naming the need for a mindset of love and gratitude no matter the situation. As a result, we are invited to hold the uncomfortable alongside the beautiful in these stories and in our lives.

Questions and Suggestions for Reflection


Read Exodus 32:1-14. When have you or your faith community gotten it wrong? When have you interceded with God on others’ behalf?
Read Psalm 106:1-6,19-23. How has forgetting that you can be wrong hurt you or your faith community? How has admitting that you were wrong strengthened you or your faith community?
Read Philippians 4:1-9. What does the reality of rejoicing always in all situations look like in your life?
Read Matthew 22:1-14. Why is it so important to be wearing the right clothing at the wedding?

Respond by posting a prayer.

Philippians 4:8-9

8 From now on, brothers and sisters, if anything is excellent and if anything is admirable, focus your thoughts on these things: all that is true, all that is holy, all that is just, all that is pure, all that is lovely, and all that is worthy of praise. 9 Practice these things: whatever you learned, received, heard, or saw in us. The God of peace will be with you.

Unless otherwise indicated, scripture quotations are from the Common English Bible. Copyright © 2011 Common English Bible. Used by permission.

And finally, my kindred siblings, finally, let us think on what is beautiful and alive and life-giving. Rather than figuring out how we can defeat the other political party, or drawing a selfish line around what is ours, or attempting to avoid the necessary death before new life comes, let’s...

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Holy Mystery, today I commit to immerse myself in what is true and real and alive and holy. Today I open my heart to embrace all of life as sacred—both the grief and the beauty of life. Amen.


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